Dustin taught me a cool trick a few years ago. Take painters tape, and tape it up on the trailer door marked with whatever was borrowed and who took it. In that manner, I could keep track of what was taken, and what was returned. I just pull the piece of tape off when the item is returned. I tend to get myself in trouble when I forget to write it down, or when I lend out higher dollar items.
I don't want money if someone borrows or takes something, I simply want it returned EXACTLY where it came from in the same or better condition when it was borrowed. Preferably, just replace what you borrowed.
Unfortunately, many times I get a lesser brand than I loaned returned. I don't ever get it returned, OR I get the product returned damaged. I used to lend leathers out at almost every weekend. After having multiple newbies CRASH my leathers, and NEVER paying me for any damages so that I can get them repaired for the next person, I finally determined I don't lend leathers anymore (3 sets of leathers trashed beyond repair). My Chickenhawks have been borrowed more times than I can count, and I don't even use them. Neither set works anymore. I have lost 3 PitBulls, borrowed, never returned... and too many spare parts to bother even trying to list.
I still try to bring all that I can to ensure that we can help people get back out on the track in the case that a spare is necessary. I learned this from Fred the first time I fell down, he lent me a brake lever and got me right back out there on the track.
I think that it is important that we all foster that same sort of giving/sharing attitude that Fred had that first time for me. If we do, we continue to make this club better and better. However, this sport is expensive enough already without having to pay for other peoples mistakes or lack of respect for your gear. Please, please folks, keep lending and helping each other, that is part of what makes this club so fantastic. BUT BE SURE to thank that person, and return what you borrowed in the same or better condition, the same or better brand the very next time you see them WITHOUT being asked. If we can all do that, we just continue to make this club better and better.
Glad to hear that Marshall and Fred have items coming back to them. Everyone check your trailers or your memories on who you might owe something to and try to make that right as soon as you can.
All the best.