Thanks for all the replies and help. :cheers: I think I've finally decided on how I'm going to wire this. (see attached drawing)
Here's my goals for the end result:
1. Be able to utilize BOTH phases/poles coming from the piece of crap genrator.
--- Stupid L14-20 twist lock receptacle. Might rewire the generator to use a TT-30 receptacle.
2. Have 120 volt receptacles, and lights inside for any work I need to do. (easy part)
3. Have 12 volt trailer circuit "automatically" switch to the shore power converter. This is where the 12 volt relays come in.
--- The relay coils will be powered by the 12 volt converter, so whenever shore power, or the generator, is on, the relays will latch, and switch all of the 12 volt circuits from the truck's power, to shore power. The converter also has a built in battery charging circuit, so this will be used for the trailer brake back-up battery, and for charging the bike's battery when the bike is in the trailer.
--- I am also installing LED reverse lights on the trailer so I can see when parking the trailer at night. These backup lights, through the use of the relays, and a wall switch, will become area/task lighting for the pit area behind the trailer.
If I wire the system for a two phase/pole panel, then this lets me hook up to any RV receptacle available, or utilize the generator. Using a ON-OFF-ON switch on the Y-leg of the incoming two phse circuit, this allows me to feed both poles from a single phase 30 amp RV connection. Having the OFF position in the middle eleminates the possibility of having a phase-to-phase short (i.e. FIREBALL). If using the generator, or pluging in to a 50 amp service, then the switch goes back to normal.
Now, I'm probably just going to use a 30 amp main breaker instead of a 50 amp, because I honestly do not need a 50 amp service, and will never use that much power. By using a 30 amp breaker, this also allows my to use an 8-AWG, or a 10-AWG, power cord without the concern for overheating the cord. There is a huge price jump when you start looking at power cords with a 6/3 with 8/1 configuration. (Think $400 for a 50 foot cord
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I know I'm thinking way too much on this, but it has now become a quest.